I Wish You Well

Mummy's grandpa passed away in the late afternoon on 9 September 2004. I wouldn't use the word "peacefully" because I have doubts that he had been feeling happy and contented for the last 2 years. I felt sad not because he is no longer with us but because I wished he could have had a happier life.

After all the usual rituals... I question the need for it. It wouldn't make the deceased feel better... only for those who remained behind to have a peace of mind. Treat the person well while he or she is still around... anything done after the person is gone is only a big wayang show.

Every ending bodes a new beginning, but after a person passes away... will there be a new beginning for him or her? Nonetheless, my last words to my grandpa was to wish him a happier life... if there really is a next life.